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It doesn't have to be over.
Successful Strategies for Starting Over And Making It Better Than It Was Before
Over 100,000 copies sold.
Written by a psychiatrist and relationship expert,
this book has comforted and helped many people.

If your lover has left you...

If your relationship is on the edge, and you feel fragile and out of control...

If you regret walking out...

If you're not sure you want your lover back, but you need to understand what happened...


You do have a second chance - if you know what has to come first.


Falling in and out of love is a natural process that can be understood and mastered.

Love properly understood can be love regained and kept alive for a lifetime.


This step-by-step approach developed by medical doctor and psychiatrist Blase Harris works. It has worked for the people in this book. And now it can work for you. Dr. Harris's practical guide shows you how to avoid the common mistakes ex-lovers make, love 100 percent, and get your lover back!

Successful lovers create positive moments by retaining awareness of each other's point of view. Really successful lovers are able to imagine themselves inside the other person.

Blase Harris

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